Monday, November 5, 2012
Self Vs. Self-Help
A friend of mine gave me a book recently; I guess you would call it a self-help book. I wish there was a better name for that category. Maybe it should be called "books that you keep by your bed that you read the first few pages of and think are amazing and then you tell your friends and in telling your friends you sort of feel/act as though you've read the whole thing and so they (the books) sit on your bedside table forever, except once in a while you pick them up to read a random sentence and they're amazing again and you sigh and think, I really should read that".
Okay, Self help. Fine. I'm pretty sure I have at least three friends/family members who have read every self help book ever written. It's not like I'm alone here. It's just that words like journey, transform, radiant, devotion... they all make me feel uneasy. And a little annoyed. I don't know why that is.
Yes I do. I'm immature, I can't help it. Anyway, I'm glad you're here. You have now stepped into the battle I have with myself and these self-help books. Welcome. Yeah, have a laugh. It's fine. The truth is I love these books, I just wish they were called something else. That's all. This one is called The Untethered Soul, The Journey Beyond Yourself.
No, I mean it. It's great.
Get the fuck out.
Read it yourself.
Maybe I will.
Okay! ...What's it about?
It's about all the voices you have in your head.
And trying to figure out which one is really you.
Yeah, it's interesting.
So which one is you?
I'm the one who hears everyone else.
Good luck with that one.
I think it's true.
Of course you do.
Maybe you're just jealous because it's not you.
Well it's not me either.
As I was saying, I have this book, and I haven't been able to get through the whole thing, but I like to pick it up from time to time and just open it anywhere and put my finger onto the page and read. Here's what it said this morning:
To obtain true inner freedom you must be able to objectively watch your problems instead of being lost in them.
I'll have to work on that one.